Hi, I'm Alec! ๐ A few years ago, after focusing on my career and buying a house ๐ , I decided it was time to start dating. But let's face it: dating apps suck ๐.
I also noticed that some people I talked to seemed to lose sight of who they were in and out of a relationship, so to stay grounded, I wrote a list of the thing I liked and valued that list became the "boyfriend application", which eventually became this interactive webstie you are now reading.
This site is a direct extension of me, quirks and nerdy info-dumps ๐ค included. I'm not perfect, but I put real effort into what matters (hopefully you! ๐). If you aren't overwhelmed by the absurdity of this site, you might be the kind of person I'm looking for: a life partner ๐ to share in the fun bits, the challenging bits, and everything in between. If you're nerdy, want a family, and enjoy both quiet days at home โ and exciting adventures ๐บ๏ธ, you might just be it.
P.S. If I'm not your type, please share this with someone who is, or just send it to a friend for a 'WTF, look what this person made!' ๐
P.P.S. There are a few easter eggs โจ hidden around here, see if you can find them! ๐
The General Vibe ๐
A collage of things I enjoy or find interesting. My general vibe!
What Dating Me Could Look Like ๐
A peek at "boyfriend mode" โ the little things I love doing for the person I'm with. There is no 'bare minimum' with me, only princess treatment! ๐
What I'm Looking For in My Player 2 for Life! ๐
No previous experience required. Just curiosity, good vibes, and a willingness to get stuck in โ below are just a few things my perfect partner might have!
What The Role Involves
โก Suggested Previous Experience
A plus, not a prerequisite โ on-the-job experience is provided.
๐ Dealbreakers (Dating Preferences)
Everyone has preferences, and to avoid disappointment, here are my bare minimum requirements. It's not you, it's me ๐ (Tap any chip to see why!)
๐ The Contract
- ๐ Permanent, monogamous role
- ๐ค Salary paid in snacks and hugs
- โ๏ธ Paid holidays (okay, we might need to split the bill)
- ๐ Bonuses paid out on birthdays, anniversaries, and special occasions
- ๐ Company car (passenger princess privileges included)
- ๐งฅ Company uniform (one of my hoodies you "borrowed" right?!)
- ๐พ Pet-friendly workspace
- โ Unlimited tea allowance
- ๐๏ธ Flexible working โ sometimes the sofa, sometimes the summit of a mountain
- ๐จ 24/7 Priority Emergency Contact privileges
- โจ โฆand so much more โ check out the Boyfriend Mode Extras ๐
Shoot Your Shot ๐
๐ Ready to Shoot Your Shot?
You've made it this far! Do you want to shoot your shot?
I've worked to make this as easy as possible: Tell me your name, set your rough location, pick your adventure, answer a few ice breakers, and leave the rest to me!
๐ What is your name, adventurer?
So you're looking to go on an adventure with Alec! Before we set off, what should I call you?
๐ Where Do You Hail From?
Every great quest needs a starting point. Drop your rough location so I can plan the journey.
No tracking โ I only see your location when you send the email.
๐บ๏ธ Pick Your Adventure
What kind of adventure would you like to go on? Pick as many as you like!
Chill mode
๐ง Intellectual
๐ฎ Video Game Session!
๐ Foodie / Market
โก Active
๐จ Creative
๐ง Lets break the ice
Nearly there! Answer a few ice breakers, hold the ones you like, shuffle the rest.
- What's your go-to comfort food after a rough day?
- What's a film or book that genuinely changed how you see things?
๐ Seal & Send
This is the message you will send:
Everything Else About Me ๐
Get to know me
Hobbies & Interests
DLC - Bonus content
Thanks for Getting This Far! ๐
If you've liked what you've seen, please reach out โ I'd love to hear from you and put together a fun first date.